Big Girl Bed

Last Friday was supposed to be the big day....Emma would stop sleeping in her crib and start sleeping in her big girl bed. We have had it set up in her room, well, for a really long time because it used to be Kayla's bed before she moved out of the room. But for Emma's birthday we gave her a Dora bed set for her bed to make the transition more exciting.

So Friday night rolls around and I have mentally prepared myself to go Supernanny on her. For those of you that do not watch this show, her rule is a step-by-step process to get the child to stay in their bed and go to sleep. The process is basically walking them to bed and telling the child it is time to go to bed and say goodnight, the next time you only say it's time to go to bed, and from then on out when the child gets out of bed you simply put them back in bed and do not speak a single word. So that is what I was all ready to do. Boy was I in for a shock!

Here is what happened....Emma FLIPPED out! She wanted nothing to do with her big girl bed. Even if I tried to lay down with her. She only wanted to sleep in her crib! I tried pulling her mattress out of her crib and that didn't work EITHER! So I didn't push the issue because I don't want her freaked out about the bed. You see, we had Kayla sleeping in our bed until she was about 4 and then Eli in our bed until he was about 6! It has been a couple of years since we have had a kid in our bed every night and I am loving it! I don't wanna go back! And because I have been such a stickler about Emma sleeping in her own bed, she won't sleep in ours. Even if she is super sick, if we try to bring her in with us, she only wants to play! And nope, not complaining at all! Anyways, I was brought to a complete halt and left with my chin resting on the floor with such shock! I have never known a child to NOT want to sleep in a bed with all that freedom! I should have known it would be Emma to change that!

I have received many great suggestions on how to work with Emma on this one. Unfortunately she doesn't really have much of an option because Hailey is ready to sleep in the crib and get out of our room. And buying a new crib is just not an option! So I think what we are going to do this weekend is take the crib down entirely and store it somewhere for a little while. In the meantime, Hailey will slowly move into Emma's room and she will start out sleeping in the pack-n-play! Because after talking to several people, I am thinking that poor Emma is tired of all of her stuff going to Hailey and she isn't about to give Hailey her crib too!

So all my dear friends and family, wish me luck this weekend! I am hoping and praying that with the crib out of site, out of mind, she will be game for sleeping in the big girl bed!

Two little love dogs

Yep, it's official, the dog has a girlfriend! He went MIA the other day. He was nowhere in the house. Eli was helping me make mini-meatloaves so you would expect a dog to be right there at his feet praying for a bit of meat to fall. Nope. He wasn't there. So I put my head out the back door to call the dog and glance over to the neighbors yard. Yep, you guessed right, that is where he was! Dust had been kicked up from him obviously running and coming to a screeching halt! So we fix the fence and figure it would be all taken care of. Then this morning, again gone for quite some time. He's over there again! Oh geez I hope this dog is fixed because Mal is not! Those would be some ugly puppies! And as a side note, the vet isn't keen on doing it at this point because of Mal's age. Anyways, I send Eli out there to get the dog and Mal just hops over the broken part of the fence like it's nothing! The kids and I had a few errands to run so we were gone for about 4 hrs or so. When we get home, I go to let the dog out and this is what I am greeted by......

That's the dog from next door! Apparently she got tired of waiting for Mal to go over there so she decided to come to our backyard! I can only imagine their conversation through the door while we were gone. Who knows how long she was back there! She really is a cute and sweet dog! It is a very weird feeling to open your door to find an animal that doesn't belong there. It took me a minute to process what I was seeing!

He is saying "Puhleeeease let me go out and play"

I kid you not, this dog was licking the door and nosing it. I think it's puppy love....

The good news is that I did find out this evening that she is fixed. We never really see the people that live in that house because we all keep different schedules. But one of them happened to be home and outside and were able to confirm that she is not able to have puppies! Phew!

Happy 2nd Birthday Emma!

Today was Emma's 2nd birthday! I cannot believe it has been 2 yrs already! At times it seems like she has always been here and at times she seems so new! I have loved watching all of her growth over this last year. Really developing a rather large vocabulary for one. I don't know that there is a word out there that she can't say! The funny thing is how soft spoken she can be. You would think that being in such a large family you would learn to speak up to be heard but instead she goes the other direction. And sometimes, when you ask her what she said, she will say it even lower the next time! She does know how to get what she wants though! She is one tough cookie and isn't afraid to fight her poor brother for anything! She very much looks up to Kayla and would be fine spending every waking hour with her. And Hailey, she does love her and wants to hold her alot but is also ok with Hailey sleeping and Emma getting all the attention. When she wants to hold Hailey she will ask "Can I hoed her?". She can't say hold so it comes out hoed. And whenever she says something like spoon or snake it comes out as sa-poon or sa-nake. Love it! Of course, we have to be aware of not talking like her so she can learn how to say the word the right way. And more importantly, so we don't walk around talking like Emma at work or school!


So for her birthday we decided not to have a party and we would just have family over. Well geez, when there are 4 sets of grandparents plus aunts and uncles....that ends up being a party! We ended up having 5 grandparents, 1 surrogate grandma (my step-sister and step-brothers mom Rhonda), an aunt, and an uncle here. Plus my giant family! A couple of the grandparents weren't able to come because of already scheduled plans. So we had cake and ice cream and let Emma open her presents. Emma is so shy that it is kind of funny. She was hiding behind this little half wall when my dad was coming to the door and then wouldn't look at anyone but Rhonda. She sat on her lap for quite some time before it was time to open presents. She did finally decide it would be ok to hug everyone though by the time they were leaving.


We gave her one of her presents in the morning, then she went to Nana's house and got more presents there, then she had the ones everyone brought to her. But she still enjoyed opening every last one of them! And now imagine how confusing it must be for her to wake up on the 26th and there are no presents and people aren't telling you happy birthday (whatever that means) and treating you special! 1 of the big gifts we got for her was a Dora bed set for her "big girl" bed so that she can transition from her crib to a twin daybed. Wish us luck with that one!

Before the madness.....

You can't see Emma but it sums up the evening!

After presents we sang Happy Birthday and ate cake. She was too cute while we were singing to her. She was facing away from everybody because of where her chair was (and no I didn't think to move it!). When everyone started to sing, a smile very slowly crept up on her face until it was full blown and she was looking around at everyone. Her expression kind of said "hey...this is cool that they are all singing to ME!".

Track update

Because my good camera broke and I haven't taken the time to get it fixed (like a dummy) I haven't been able to get good pictures of Kayla running. The track is too big and she always ends up running on the east side of the track and we sit on the west side of the track. They make all of us parents sit in the stands and cannot go out on the track....period. Even if your child is injured as I witnessed this week!

Anyways, track is going good for Kayla. Those coaches are really working these girls! Kayla has improved some of her race times this year which is awesome. I can see her pride when she tells me this too which I love. I'm glad she has found something that she likes as far as sports go. Since she always competes in relays she doesn't win on her own and quite honestly I don't know that her teams have won yet either. We don't stick around for the whole meet if we don't have to because of having to feed everyone dinner and homework and everything that goes along with 4 children! The meets start at 4:30 so the girls get out of their classes about 15 minutes early to load the bus and head over to the stadium their meets are at.

Here is the only picture I managed to get and Kayla is being a bit goofy in it. She had forgotten to bring her snack on Tues so that she would have it for the meet so she was rather hungry by the time I brought her this! That is her friend Kadejah with her.

Soccer

Here is a quick update on soccer.....

It is very quickly coming to an end already! Eli only has 3 or 4 more games left! This season has been a good one for the team. They average a win just about every other game. It's fun to watch these boys play though. And they seem to have fun for the most part. They did group pictures before the last game so I am looking forward to getting that.

I did figure out that it isn't a good idea to take Emma to the games. I can now see why they make kid leashes! :) She thinks it's fun and funny to take off running across the park. There is one particular park that they have games at that is quite large. She really enjoys taking off and running for the hill which is literally on the other side of the park than the soccer field we are on!

Scrapbook

A couple of the ladies at work are pretty avid scrapbookers and offered to scrapbook a couple of pages from my baby shower that they threw for me. With their schedules and what not they were finally able to get together to actually work on it a couple of weeks ago. These two are so creative that they got the whole idea just from seeing the gift bags at the shower! Here are pictures of each page.

The pictures are in order as they would be in a book. They had tied the pages together with little ribbons as you can see in a couple of the pictures. Well I turned my back for a second and Emma had all the pages out and all the ribbons pulled out! Geez! So I just need to get a book to put the pages in and there is my start of a Hailey scrapbook!

Sleeping

As I took all the pictures off my camera this evening I happened to notice there were several pictures of sleeping people. I guess I was just enjoying the quiet time so much I decided to snap pictures! Just kidding! Once you see these pictures you will see why I took them!

Emma with her baby Sarah sleeping on her chest. And only 2 blankets instead of the 5+ she was sleeping with every night during the summer!

My little snuggle bug Hailey. She still loves to be swaddled for sleeping at night.

Yep, she is sleeping like that. If she gets fussy all JR has to do is put her near his face and talk softly to her and it usually settles her right down. This time, it settled her so much she fell asleep!

Eli and Mal....the dog really thinks he is human. He was on his back and snuggling up in Eli's neck!

Eli rocked her to sleep this morning while I was in the shower. Big brothers rock! Oh and just look at how much she looks like him!

Hailey Smiling

So I have been trying very hard to get a picture of miss Hailey smiling. It is quite the challenge because as soon as the camera is in her face she just stares at it wondering what it is. Kayla and I had to get together and have one of us make her smile and the other take a picture!

She was "talking" to Kayla.

1st Soccer game

Eli had his first game of the season on Wed. His team tried real hard but they lost quite painfully! :) One of his teammates must have some experience with soccer because the kid stood up at half time and did a little of his own coaching for the boys! They had their 2nd game on Friday and this time they won 7-1!

All the players getting ready for the start of the game. This was before Eli realized just how cold it was. He eventually put a shirt on under his uniform.

Can you find him out there?!

Poor Kayla had to go straigt from track practice so she didn't have ANY warm clothes! Good thing I brought this blanket!

Emma found a seat on Hailey's stroller.

This was Emma's and now Hailey get's to wear it. Too cute! It even came with a little teddy bear in the pocket.

She's a chunk!

Today's was Hailey's 2 month well baby check-up. And it official, she is a chunk! Here are her stats:

Weight - 12 lbs 13 oz

Height - 23 1/2"

That puts her in the 96th percentile for weight and 93rd percentile for height. It is no secret that Trumbull's are tall so that is no surprise to me. For those of you not familiar with the percentile deal, it simply means that she is heavier than 96% of babies her exact age and 93% taller. It really doesn't mean anything in the grand scheme of things because it fluctuates from month to month, year to year. But I do have to laugh when Emma was at 100% in her height at one point! I knew she was tall but geez! Anyways, Hailey is a picture of good health. The poor baby did have to have 4 shots today. The sad thing about that is within the next week or so, the doctors office will have a combo shot that would have all 4 of those vaccines in 1. I could have waited but I am not nice like that! The other 3 kids had to have all those pokes too! :) And for those of you that may have been wondering, that little red spot on her cheek is called a hemangioma. In layman's terms, it is a strawberry birthmark. It will eventually go away (I have heard by the age of 2, by the age of 7 and by the age of 10) or we can opt to have it removed. But the doctor would like to just leave it alone and let it do it's thing. I really love our pediatrician because he will not just prescribe a medication to a child and he won't just to a procedure if it isn't necessary or if it is too soon. I have always been one to not just take a pill but to wait until whatever the issue has become unbearable. I like that my kids live by that principle also. I know that they can take an antibiotic and it will work because they have not taken it so much they are basically immune to it. Wow kind of got sidetracked there for a minute!

I was glad that she is at the height she is because the Baby Bjorn explicitly tells me not to move the baby further down my chest/abdomen until she is at least 23.5 inches long. I put her in it the other day and her head was right at my chin. Not comfortable! I put her in it tonight while we were at Kayla's open house at school and it was much better!

8 Weeks

WOW I cannot believe it. Hailey is 8 weeks old already! And of course they have just flown by. We have watched Hailey go from that distinct newborn look of a wrinkly baby to having chubby little cheeks and wide eyed expressions. She smiles at us and will coo and try to talk to us now. You can tell she really has a lot to say. I watched her interact with Nana today and it was awesome. As my mom held her and talked to her she just wriggled her little body and would raspberry right back at her. And of course, give Nana the occasional smile. Everyone thought for sure that because Hailey was the 4th child she would be a quiet, mild baby. Boy were they ever wrong! It is quite the opposite actually. Because she is the 4th child she has to make sure we know she is there! She is probably my most demanding baby out of all of them. If she wants to be held, she will make sure you know. If she is hungry, she will make sure you know. Lord help us all when this baby can talk! Who knows what she will be saying to us.

Kayla is a great help with Hailey for sure. About the only thing she doesn't want to do is change a poopy diaper. She likes to help me give the girls a bath and washing Hailey is her favorite. If Hailey is crying, Kayla will go get her out of bed (or wherever she is) and hold her or come find me if she isn't sure what is wrong. But you can also tell if it is too much for Kayla because of the look she gets on her face. I had asked Kayla to keep an ear out for Hailey one day while I was in the shower and Hailey decided that it was a good idea to cry pretty much the entire time I was in there. So when I come out, Kayla is standing up rocking Hailey (this was pre-rocking chair - we all got tired of being a human rocking chair so Nana gave us one of her glider rockers) and her eyes are glazed over and she has this panic expression. She didn't realize she could have come to tell me Hailey wouldn't quit crying so that I would get out! But I am very grateful that she was on summer vacation for the first several weeks. I don't know how I would have done it without her!

Elijah is just in love with his new baby sister. He loves to hold her too. Most of the time he can lay her on his chest and she will just lay there quietly. He will also pick her up if she is crying to calm her. Of course he isn't too interested in bath time or diaper changes or dressing her up. But he does enjoy feeding Hailey her bottles. He just knows that he and Hailey are going to have a special bond.

Emma has handled having to share attention way better than I had expected. The only trouble we have with her is that she doesn't understand what it means to be gentle with Hailey. So she will try to make Hailey hold her hand while I am feeding her. And she likes to rub Hailey's head but will eventually end up patting her a bit too hard if I don't watch her! But she does sometimes ask us to hold her "Like Hailey" which means to cradle her in our arms. She especially likes that after her bath. But I think most of the time she forgets Hailey is even there.

So I have one week left of maternity leave and I am trying to make the most of it despite a million appointments and activities for the big kids this week. I will certainly miss spending the days with the little girls. I know Nana is looking forward to having her Emma back and now she gets to form another special bond with Hailey. I do feel blessed that I have my mom to watch the girls instead of having to send them to daycare. The good news is that for the last 2 nights Hailey has slept for 7 hours. Up until then, she was waking up typically at 3 and 5. Emma did the exact same thing - started sleeping at longer stretches right before I went back to work. It's like they just know.

Smile!

Hailey will now smile at you when you talk to her and play around with her (as much as you can play with a 2 month old). It is very cute and, naturally, very big! She will also try to talk back to you by cooing in her throaty little way. I tried with all my might to get a picture of her smiling today but she wasn't cooperating with me. As soon as I can snap one, I will post it on here!